Hello - I’m Alastair Duhs.
For over 30 years, I’ve helped more than 15,000 individuals and couples transform their relationships - not just by resolving conflict, but by rediscovering the love, connection and joy that brought them together in the first place.
Relationships can be complex. And let’s face it - life gets busy. Communication slips. Distance creeps in. The spark starts to fade.
That’s where I come in.
As a relationship expert with decades of hands-on experience, my mission is simple:
To help you build a relationship that feels safe, loving, passionate and strong.
Whether you’re arguing too much, feeling more like flatmates than partners or just want to reconnect on a deeper level, I’m here to support you with practical, proven tools that actually work - even if you’ve tried other approaches before.
Because I believe every couple has the potential to create something extraordinary - when they have the right teaching and support.
How I Can Help
If you’re new here, here are two great ways to begin:
FREE: How Connected Is Your Relationship?
Take the FREE 2-minute quiz to discover exactly where your relationship is at and get a personalised recommendation for your clearest path forward.
CLOSE AGAIN: A Step-by-Step Program for Couples Who Want to Reconnect, Communicate Better and Feel Like a Team Again
"Close Again" is a practical, step-by-step program designed for couples who still love each other but feel stuck, distant or disconnected.
Get clear tools, proven strategies and real results - without endless therapy or uncomfortable conversations.
Every relationship hits rough patches. But with the right tools and guidance, change is not only possible - it's often faster than you think.
Thanks for being here.
Let’s get started.
