About

Hello — I’m Alastair Duhs.

For over 30 years, I’ve helped more than 15,000 individuals and couples transform their relationships — not just by resolving conflict, but by rediscovering the love, connection and joy that brought them together in the first place.

Relationships can be complex. And let’s face it — life gets busy. Communication slips. Distance creeps in. The spark starts to fade.

That’s where I come in.

As a relationship expert with decades of hands-on experience, my mission is simple:

To help you build a relationship that feels safe, loving, passionate and strong.

Whether you’re arguing too much, feeling more like flatmates than partners or just want to reconnect on a deeper level, I’m here to support you with practical, proven tools that actually work — even if you’ve tried other approaches before.

Because I believe every couple has the potential to create something extraordinary — when they have the right teaching and support.

How I Can Help

If you’re new here, here are two great ways to begin:

Free Mini-Course: 7 Days to a Better Relationship

A quick, practical way to feel closer — one short tip a day, delivered by email.

Small shifts can change everything — and I’m here to guide you.

Yes, I Want the Free Mini-Course >>

The Connected Couple Membership™

If you want to feel closer, communicate better, and bring more warmth and ease back into your relationship, this membership gives you the tools to do exactly that — in just a few minutes each week.

You’ll get short video lessons, monthly group coaching, and access to my full library of proven strategies — all designed to help you reconnect without pressure, judgment, or endless talking.

Yes, I Want A More Connected Relationship >>

Every relationship hits rough patches. But with the right tools and guidance, change is not only possible — it's often faster than you think.

Thanks for being here.

Let’s get started.